October?

The least Halloweeny Halloween of our (mine and Nils') lives, probably. We spent the entire day working on the basement. We quit around 9:20 pm. We missed all of the trick or treaters! This wasn't premeditated- we just got carried away over there, started assembling the kitchen cabinets and couldn't quit. We want to get this thing DONE. 

Nils has spent the better part of the month spending all of his days and evenings over there, and it's looking real nice. Trim and doors are up, flooring is installed (other than carpet in the bedrooms, which we still need to order), and it's looking pretty real. Once all of the finish work is done, the bathroom needs to be done. As per usual, that is the last thing on the list since it's such a big project on its own. 

Our goal is to have the basement done by mid-November, and the launch the basement finishing course on Black Friday. It may be a lofty goal, but we need to get it all done so we can move on and focus on other aspects of life and the business. 

I've been trying to get more stuff on social media, making reels and short form videos, emailing our newsletter list, working with more sponsors to help fund the basement and our livelihood, and we were approached by a new platform by Raptive, so that's been a whole thing that requires thought, time, and strategy. Hoping to get that launched in the next week or so. 

We went to VidSummit at the beginning of the month in Dallas. We have no travel plans for the time being, but that could change at any point, just not in November, since we have too much to do. 

Then there's all that church stuff. 😳 Bishoping be rough, man. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. 

Then there's all those kids and family life...

Anders is working and socializing as much as possible.
Addie has been hired as a substitute teacher and is doing her thing.
Aani is nannying and grinding away at cosmetology school.
Ava has senioritis (she's a sophomore), started drivers ed, and is looking for a job for when she turns 16 in a month.

Maybe when I write again at the end of November, the basement will be done for real, we'll have a course completed and launched, and we can get that house rented out. :) That would be swell! 

Pictures in no particular order because WHO HAS THE ENERGY FOR THAT: 

This is what we did tonight.

Priests and Laurels pumpkins. Yes, we call them Laurels. Release us. Please. JK kinda, not really.

Halloween Fashion Show for Aani and Ava. 2nd Place, baby. 

Nice wig, Aani. She is a hoot and a half. 

I wanted to send this to some people when BYU and U of U played a couple of weeks ago, but I didn't because I want friends.

Aani being an emcee, slay queen slay. 

The basement. Have I mentioned the basement?

Nils' new passion: the Costco caramel brownie sundae. 

I'm so handy.

Bowling on Grandma's birthday

Nils has been battling tennis elbow for months, and some tearing was finally discovered. Cortisone injection and hopefully the improvement will continue. 

Some dude at VidSummit. 

My BBG's

I built my first ever Lego set, and the eyes and mouth light up! Spooky! 

Be good.

Aloha and Mahalo

For historical context's sake, this month has been a rough one. 

• Assassination at our alma mater, UVU. Unbelievably horrific.

• President Nelson died.

• Attack/murders targeting an LDS church service in Michigan the following day.

It's been heavy. Feels like it's time for Jesus to come, but until that happens we just gotta do our best to be good and make a positive difference as much as we're able, and mourn with those who mourn. There are plenty of people in our small sphere of influence who have suffered tremendous loss and tragedy unrelated to these well known tragedies. Anyway, just wanted to acknowledge what feels like a sad state of current affairs in the world.

Okay, so here's some of what's been going on with us:

Anders continues to do good work for LRN2DIY, hang with friends, be frustrated by girls, and enjoys coming up with creative photo/video shoot ideas, such as the one pictured below:

Addie has finished the outdoor pool season and has been a bit of a hard time grappling with what comes next. She's decided to try substitute teaching for now, so that's fun. She does like to teach.

Also hangs with friends, crochets, enjoys a good movie marathon, and loving on Pip. 

Aani is nannying a couple times a week, still cranking on cosmetology school, hangs out with Aidan as much as possible, and was called as the Primary music leader. Absolutely crushing it. 

Ava finished the totally insane tennis season, and is enjoying a little time to breathe for the first time in awhile. 

Aani and her little nannying client- they rode the escalator at the mall many times.

Aidan seems to be okay with all of us wanting to hold his hand.

So Aani was prescribed Wellbutrin for anxiety, and the person who prescribed it was either unwell themselves or not thinking correctly, because they prescribed her 4x the normal dose. She had some really weird symptoms for a couple of weeks until I looked at the bottle and realized what was happening. I should be a doctor, I swear. Anyway...on the correct dose she's doing much better. Good grief. 

All of the girls have gone to the mountains in the last couple of weeks, so I don't know who took these pictures. Good job, ladies! 

Ava went to homecoming with Chase and had a good time. When he arrived to pick her up, Pip had a seizure. Ava picked Pip up, and Pip peed all over her homecoming dress. Fortunately, big sis Aani was right there and saved the day. She quickly took Ava downstairs and helped her find a new dress and Ava looked very pretty. 

Addie and Lia on a mountain adventure. 

Pip struggleth. She's happy when she's not seizing. 

Ava and Harper

Aani and Ava at MTECH

First HS football game- our team actually won! They never win! 

Aani teaching the primary kids what's what. 

So Nils and I ran away last week to Hawaii. We haven't had a vacation by ourselves in a long time- we travel a lot together for work, but those are trips that are typically very busy and worky. 

It was time. Plus it was our 25th anniversary in April, and we took the kids to Japan, which was amazing. We're calling this Hawaiian vacation our 25th anniversary vacation, baby. 

Have we loved it? Yes. Yes we have. 

Sitting in the Honolulu airport as I type, about to board our flight home. 

Things we did:

• Stayed in a studio apartment on Waikiki. 

• Rented a sweet hybrid Toyota Corolla on Turo, and for the entire 8 days of driving all over this island, gas cost us $32. 

• Ate breakfast and lunch every day from our grocery stash. We've been so dang thrifty and had no kids to whine about it. 

• 4 trips to Costco. 🩷🩷🩷🩷

• Met friends from our ward on the first night here for dinner. We overlapped coincidentally and that was pretty fun. 

• Endowment session at Laie Temple

• Snorkeling and beach lounging at Shark's Cove

• Diamond Head Crater hike

• Dole Plantation, aka gift shop. Ate Dole Whips. They tasted like a Dole Whip. 

• Polynesian Cultural Center. We had no idea what this entailed. Probably don't need to do it again, but the fire show at the very end was cool. 

• Snorkeled at Hanauma Bay

• Ate at Cheesecake Factory because we like to branch out. 😏

• Spent Saturday going on a long walk and chillin'. We took naps. It was awesome. 

• Went to church at the Makiki ward. Alooooooha!

• Hiked the 3 Peaks, but only to the first peak. It was SO HARD. Think you're in shape? Do this hike and you will never think that again. Do this if you enjoy feeling like you're going to die and your calves are going to burst. 

• Took an ATV tour at Kualoa Ranch and saw some beautiful mountain scenery and some fun movie sites from many productions. 

• Went to Waimea Valley and walked around the botanical gardens. Beautiful. 

We've driven all over this island for 8 days and have been blown away by its beauty. We've also loved having all the conveniences available. We are Costco people, you know. And we are also the people of Walmart. 

Nils got this sweet tat at the PCC. Too bad it was super water soluble and washed off. 

Shark's Cove sunset. 

Part of the 3 Peaks Hike. It was shady the whole time, which was really nice since we were sweating to death and our heart rates were like 185. Well mine was. Nils' was probably 70. 

My lover butt with a huge leaf. 

Kualoa Ranch

Our new ward building

Hanauma Bay

Homemade dinner- "pasta lasagna" as Aani calls it. GF, don't worry folks. 

Laie Temple: Smaller IRL, but still effective. 5 Stars.

We were forced to do the Shaka by the man taking the picture. We don't think we're Hawaiian, don't worry/

This is the view from the top of 3 Peaks. Worth dying for. 

This actually happened when we were at the top of Diamond Head Crater! What in the world? 

This is what you have to do on that hike! What am I, a mountaineer?? Nay, I am not at mountaineer. 

Mahalo, Oahu! We 💖 You. We had the most fun. We still love and like each other. We like being with each other, even after all these decades together.